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Ghosting

Ghosting

So, you’ve been ghosted. Now what?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairMay 14, 2019ghosting, self love, relationships, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachmentComment

Pause

Pause

Are you meeting a emotionally unavailable guy after emotionally unavailable guy and wondering what the heck is going on?

HonestAmanda BlairApril 30, 2019pause, withdrawl, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, dating break, brain chemistry, self worth, self loveComment

Social media stalking

Social media stalking

Be honest, do you stalk your exes Instagram?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairApril 23, 2019social media, social media stalking, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, relationships, relationship anxiety, real talk with ab, real talk Comment

Soothe thy self

Soothe thy self

in my practice I get asked a lot how to deal with getting activated from my clients with anxious attachments.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairApril 17, 2019soothing, self soothing, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, attachment activated, Attachment theory, attachment style Comment

Casual sex

Casual sex

Casual sex— do or don’t?

HonestAmanda BlairApril 12, 2019casual sex, casual sex and dating, relationships, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, love coach, real talk, real talk with abComment

Steering the ship

Steering the ship

Who steers the ship at the beginning of the relationship? You or do you defer to your partner?

HonestAmanda BlairApril 10, 2019steering the ship, relationships, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, dating, love, relationship anxietyComment

Self abandonment

Self abandonment

Self abandonment— don’t do it.

HonestAmanda BlairMarch 20, 2019abandonment, self abandonment, coaching, love coach, relationship coach, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, attachment style, Attachment theory, self love, self care, love, dating, real talk, real talk with abComment

Interdependence vs Independence

Interdependence vs Independence

We are taught to be independent, strong and resilient.

HonestAmanda BlairMarch 13, 2019interdependence, independence, codependency, self love, dating, interdependent relationships, nature, real talk, love, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, Attachment theory, attachment style, avoidant attachmentComment

Anxious attachment and dating

Anxious attachment and dating

Okay, so you have an anxious attachment style. Now what?