Blog — Amanda Blair

Backsliding

When we start doing deep spiritual work, reprogramming old beliefs, stepping away from old patterns and creating new ones we feel forward motion

HonestAmanda BlairMay 17, 2019feeings, emotions, thoughts, sliding back, the work, deep spiritual work, strengthen your container, nervous system, dating, self love, self worth, relationship coach Comment

A Beautiful Community (Podcast)

Hello beautiful humans!! I am so excited to share my latest podcast episode that is out today on A Single Serving Podcast!

Honest, Wild, Holistic LivingAmanda BlairMay 6, 2019podcast, single ladies, single season, how to enjoy being single, anxious attachment Comment

Pause

Are you meeting a emotionally unavailable guy after emotionally unavailable guy and wondering what the heck is going on?

HonestAmanda BlairApril 30, 2019pause, withdrawl, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, dating break, brain chemistry, self worth, self loveComment

Expanded podcast

Today is a very special day because it’s the day my Expanded Podcast with Lacy Phillips is live!!!

Wild, Honest, Holistic LivingAmanda BlairApril 19, 2019expanded podcast, to be magnetic, relationship coachComment

Casual sex

Casual sex— do or don’t?

HonestAmanda BlairApril 12, 2019casual sex, casual sex and dating, relationships, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, love coach, real talk, real talk with abComment

Steering the ship

Who steers the ship at the beginning of the relationship? You or do you defer to your partner?

HonestAmanda BlairApril 10, 2019steering the ship, relationships, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, dating, love, relationship anxietyComment

Lessons learned from a rock bottom

I’m interrupting normal programing of romantic relationship talk for self relationship talk instead.

HonestAmanda BlairApril 2, 2019apartments, nyc real estate, brooklyn, rock bottom, to be magnetic, living alone, clarity, head burying, lessons, life lessons, The UniverseComment

Self abandonment

Self abandonment— don’t do it.

HonestAmanda BlairMarch 20, 2019abandonment, self abandonment, coaching, love coach, relationship coach, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, attachment style, Attachment theory, self love, self care, love, dating, real talk, real talk with abComment

Interdependence vs Independence

We are taught to be independent, strong and resilient.

HonestAmanda BlairMarch 13, 2019interdependence, independence, codependency, self love, dating, interdependent relationships, nature, real talk, love, anxious attachment, dating and anxious attachment, Attachment theory, attachment style, avoidant attachmentComment

Texting etiquette

Alright, I’m going break down texting and dating once for all. It was always confusing to me before I figured out my philosophy on it but once I did, it made the whole texting debacle a lot easier.

HonestAmanda BlairFebruary 20, 2019texting, texting anxiety, anxiety, anxious, new relationship, do you text a guy first, feminine energy, masculine energy Comment

Shine bright

Last night was the full wolf moon/blood moon lunar eclipse.

HonestAmanda BlairJanuary 21, 2019full moon, leo full moon, lunar eclipse, downloads, addictions, sobriety, self work, diamondComment

New love for your old love

Break ups are hard. Obviously! We all process them differently but, I think we can agree breakups are sad.

HonestAmanda BlairJanuary 15, 2019old love, new love, exes, moving on, boyfriend, girlfriend, dating, jealousy, not good enough, self worth, low self worth, high self worth, secret Comment

New year, same sobriety

The New Year is special for many reasons. I love the feeling of a fresh start, a new page and a new beginning.

HonestAmanda BlairJanuary 3, 2019sobriety, sober, sober life, sober book club, two years sober, lessons, struggle, success, 12 steps, work the programComment

Dunking and bleaching

2017 was a big high for me. I got sober. I started long distance running.

HonestAmanda BlairDecember 14, 2018travel, low, high, contraction, expansion, human design, feelings, emotional authority, dunk, bleach, dye, cloth, India, SE AsiaComment

A guide to enjoying online dating

I’ve been single again for about 7 months. And I’m loving it.

HonestAmanda BlairDecember 5, 2018online dating, dating protocol, dating is fun, boundaries, self love, self worth, real talk, real talk with ab, love coach, lists, calling in my list, partners, test, testsComment

Foolish games

One of the biggest complaints I hear about dating as a love coach is the amount of games involved when seeing someone. I understand the complaint and I used to have a similar one even though I was out there playing all sorts of game too. Now, I recognizes games are useless and not needed. What is sorely need in place of games is radical vulnerability and boundaries. What’s the difference? Glad you asked!

Honest, Holistic LivingAmanda BlairNovember 7, 2018radical vulnerability, boundaries, dating, dating do and donts, no games, foolish games Comment

How to get over an ex

Whew. This is going to be one my most venerable posts. Why? Well, the stories I share here used to create a lot of shame within me. And though, I don’t feel that shame presently, sharing this still feels raw. It feels really important to share though because I know other humans go through this too. How do we get over an ex we can’t seem to get over?

HonestAmanda BlairOctober 30, 2018real talk, relationships, exes, love, how to, real talk with ab, getting over an exComment

Acting my authenticity

“You don’t act like a 30 year old Amanda!”

HonestAmanda BlairOctober 11, 2018act your age, age, ageism, act your joy, act you authenticity, act your love, love, self worth, self work, real talk with ab, real talkComment

It's your wounds

When I was in college I met a boy and we dated on and off for a year. I was very in love with him but could never fully express my feelings because the relationship never felt secure. He never told me how he felt about me for one and for two we barely saw each other despite the fact that we lived a whole 5 minutes from the other and went to the same college. We also cheated on each other! It was a weird relationship to say the least. But, I couldn’t let him go! Even after we broke up and he was dating someone else, I was still his side chick. I told my friends at the time even though logically I understood why I should walk away, my heart wouldn’t let me.

HonestAmanda BlairSeptember 18, 2018wounds, lead with your heart, childhood, subconcious, subconscious, dating, real talk with ab, real talk, relationships Comment

Crazy women

Have you ever been called crazy? I have. I've been called it to my face and behind my back. Both are equally demeaning and heartbreaking. I hear a lot of men call their ex girlfriends or women they aren't interested in as "crazy" but, I mostly hear women calling other women "crazy". It drives me nuts (pun intended) and I think it needs to stop.

HonestAmanda BlairAugust 30, 2018crazy, crazy women, women, relationships, cheatingComment

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