Blog — Amanda Blair

Safe scrolling

Boredom can lead to many creative discoveries within ourselves and on the flip side, it can also lead to destructive patterns like stalking on exes on IG

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairApril 7, 2020exes, ig stalking, quaratine, dating, love, moving on, letting go, releasing, anxious attachment, why I can't move on, relationship coaching, anxious attachment and sex, attachment style Comments

Now what?

Last week, on my Instagram I posted about the importance of getting tested for HIV/STDs.

HonestAmanda BlairFebruary 18, 2020STD testing, HIV, HIV testing, sexual health, self worth, self love, get tested, how to tell a partner, hard conversations, testing Comments

Valentines gifts for you

Valentine’s day is a made-up holiday, but I still think it’s a wonderful excuse to celebrate love.

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairFebruary 12, 2020valentine's day, self love, celebrate, celebrate singleness, single, love, all love, gifts, mejuri, skin laundry, lush, dipsea, sexy Comments

But, maybe

Have you ever met someone and they are oh-so-cute, check off a lot of your boxes— preferred height, cool career, exciting hobbies, close to their family, like the obscure think you like too—, but there are also red flags?

HonestAmanda BlairFebruary 5, 2020but maybe, red flags, anxious attachment, anxious attachment and dating, attachment style, dating, relationships Comments

Trading sex for intimacy

Humans with anxious attachment have a catch-22 when it comes to sex.

HonestAmanda BlairJanuary 9, 2020trading sex for intimacy, sex, intimacy, false intimacy, anxious attachment and sex, anxiety, attachment theory, attachment style, avoidant attachment, arambol, anxious-avoidant trap, dating and anxious attachmenet Comments

Toxic relationship ending

Q: I just recently got out of a toxic relationship and am wondering about the next steps for moving forward and on with my life.

HonestAmanda BlairDecember 18, 2019q+a, question, dating question, toxic relationship, moving forward, moving on, love, dating, relationships Comment

Text energy

As my friend Kat would say, I have a WORD for you today. Ready?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairDecember 17, 2019texting, dating, how much is he texting, waiting for a text, anxious attachment, attachment style Comments

Dating in the suburbs

Q: I recently moved from the city of Chicago to the suburbs of Chicago and moved in with my parents.

HonestAmanda BlairDecember 12, 2019question, answer, dating question, relationship coaching, relationships, mirros, dating in the suburbs, dating in the city Comment

Single and coaching

I don’t get this question too often, but it does come up. “Why are you single if you’re a relationship coach?”

HonestAmanda BlairDecember 10, 2019single, relationship coaching, relationships, the work, dating, relationship to self Comment

Pumpkin Pie with a Side of Boundaries

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!

HonestAmanda BlairNovember 28, 2019boundaries, thanksgiving, holiday, family, triggers Comment

Direct communication

When we are stuck in our attachment, we typically don’t communicate directly.

HonestAmanda BlairNovember 13, 2019direct communication, communication, communication in relationships, mixed messages, projecting, needs, know your needs, self love, self worth, relationships, dating, anxious attachment, attachment style, insecure attachments, earned secure Comment

Singles day

Last week I was on Uniqlo’s website looking for heat teach turtlenecks, as one does when it below 40’s in NYC, and I saw something about a sale for Singles Day.

HonestAmanda BlairNovember 11, 2019single, singles day, 11.11, celebration, celebrate singleness, singledom, dating, love you, love coach, relationships, relationship coaching Comment

How to get over a breakup

This week is breakup themed and what better way to round it out than by talking about how to get over a breakup?

Holistic LivingAmanda BlairOctober 31, 2019breakups, break up tips, how to get over a breakup, dating, relationships, anxious attachment Comment

Dating burnout

One thing I hear a ton from my clients during our first session is that they are burnt out on dating or the “apps”. They feel like all they meet are duds and are tired of not meeting their person.